ADHD & Autism Support That Fits How Your Brain Actually Works
Understood, not broken.
Thriive is the support app for ADHD and autistic brains — and the whole household behind them. Track your patterns, find strategies that actually fit, and walk into every appointment with evidence. For yourself, or for your child.
What changes with Thriive
Without Thriive
- Going through life believing you're broken
- Falling behind and never understanding why
- Slipping through the cracks of a system not built for you
- Trying everything and still feeling stuck
With Thriive
- Understanding how your brain actually works
- Confidence to advocate for what you need
- Strategies that actually fit, not generic advice
- Knowing you're not the problem
How Thriive supports ADHD and autistic people
- Pattern Tracker: Log a tough moment in 30 seconds. Thriive surfaces the patterns behind it — your triggers, your hardest times of day, what helps.
- Strategy Library: 130+ real strategies for ADHD and autism, matched to your neurotype and the time you've got. Not generic advice.
- Smart Strategies: Describe what's going on and Thriive builds a strategy around you — or around your child.
- Visual Routine Builder: Step-by-step routines for the moments that usually go sideways. Mornings, transitions, winding down.
- Daily Check-ins: A 30-second mood check that builds a picture of how you're really doing over time.
- Shareable Reports: Take real evidence to your GP, school, workplace, or therapist when it matters.
One app for the whole neurodivergent household
For adults
Understand your own brain. Build evidence for assessments and workplace adjustments. Stop feeling like you're figuring it out alone.
For parents
Spot the patterns behind the hard days. Advocate with confidence at school and with doctors. Strategies matched to your child, not a textbook.
For children
Feel seen. Understand how your own brain works. Build a profile that's yours.
Neurodivergent conditions Thriive supports
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Managing the After-School Explosion
Your child holds it together at school then falls apart completely at home
Steps
- Understand what's happening: your child is not misbehaving. They're decompressing. All day they've been masking — suppressing natural responses to fit in. Home is safe, so home is where the mask comes off
- Create a 'landing zone' for when they arrive home. No demands, no questions, no homework for at least 30 minutes
- Offer food immediately. Blood sugar drops after school and makes regulation much harder
- Give them a low-demand activity: screen time, outdoor play, or quiet alone time — whatever they naturally reach for
- Wait until they've regulated before discussing school, homework, or anything requiring effort
- Name it for them when they're calm: 'You work so hard all day. It makes sense you need to let it out when you get home'
What you need
A predictable after-school routine, easy snacks ready, patience, understanding that this is neurological not behavioural
Why it works
The after-school explosion happens because your child has been masking all day — suppressing stims, managing sensory input, navigating social rules — and home is the only place safe enough to let the mask drop. A landing zone acknowledges this neurological reality instead of treating it as bad behaviour.
Age guidance
Common from age 4 onwards and can persist through secondary school. The decompression activity should match the child's age and preferences.
Real-world example
A parent stopped asking 'how was school?' the moment their child got in the car and instead had a snack ready and the favourite playlist on. The meltdowns in the car stopped almost immediately. Questions could wait until after the 30-minute decompression window.
Troubleshooting
- If siblings trigger the explosion, consider separating them for the first 30 minutes after school
- If it's getting worse, the school day itself may be too demanding. Talk to the learning support team about in-school support
- Don't try to talk about it during the explosion. Wait for calm. Trying to reason during dysregulation doesn't work
- Tell other family members and carers what's happening and why, so they don't take it personally or punish it