Thriive — The App for Neurodivergent Families
Free to start. Thriive helps parents of neurodivergent kids (ADHD, autism, dyslexia & more) track what matters, spot patterns and advocate with confidence.
Features
- Visual Routine Builder — Create step-by-step visual routines for morning, bedtime, homework, and more
- Challenge Tracker — Log challenges in 30 seconds and spot patterns automatically
- Strategy Library — Evidence-based strategies tailored to your child's neurodivergent profile
- Daily Check-ins — Track mood, wins, and progress with quick daily reflections
- Shareable Reports — Generate reports for doctors, schools, and therapists
- The Hive — Community tips from parents who understand
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Educating Extended Family
Grandparents, aunts, uncles, or in-laws don't understand your child's needs and offer unhelpful advice
Steps
- Prepare a simple explanation: 'Their brain works differently, so they need different support'
- Share one or two specific, practical things family can do (or avoid doing)
- Set boundaries calmly: 'I appreciate your concern, but this is what works for us'
- Send helpful articles or resources if they're open to learning
- Accept that some people won't get it. Protect your energy
What you need
Prepared explanations, boundary scripts, patience
Why it works
Extended family often default to outdated views about behaviour ('they just need more discipline'). Providing simple, practical explanations shifts the conversation from judgement to understanding. You don't need anyone to become an expert — you just need them to stop undermining your approach.
Age guidance
Relevant from the moment you notice family members aren't understanding your child's needs. Earlier conversations prevent entrenched misunderstandings.
Real-world example
A parent prepared one sentence for Christmas: 'His brain works differently, so we parent differently. Here's one thing that helps: give him a 5-minute warning before any change.' That single, specific ask made the family gathering manageable for the first time in years.
Troubleshooting
- You don't owe anyone a diagnosis to explain your parenting choices
- Focus on 'what helps' rather than labels. It's easier for people to grasp
- If family gatherings are too stressful, it's OK to set limits on attendance