ADHD & Autism Support That Fits How Your Brain Actually Works
Understood, not broken.
Thriive is the support app for ADHD and autistic brains — and the whole household behind them. Track your patterns, find strategies that actually fit, and walk into every appointment with evidence. For yourself, or for your child.
What changes with Thriive
Without Thriive
- Going through life believing you're broken
- Falling behind and never understanding why
- Slipping through the cracks of a system not built for you
- Trying everything and still feeling stuck
With Thriive
- Understanding how your brain actually works
- Confidence to advocate for what you need
- Strategies that actually fit, not generic advice
- Knowing you're not the problem
How Thriive supports ADHD and autistic people
- Pattern Tracker: Log a tough moment in 30 seconds. Thriive surfaces the patterns behind it — your triggers, your hardest times of day, what helps.
- Strategy Library: 130+ real strategies for ADHD and autism, matched to your neurotype and the time you've got. Not generic advice.
- Smart Strategies: Describe what's going on and Thriive builds a strategy around you — or around your child.
- Visual Routine Builder: Step-by-step routines for the moments that usually go sideways. Mornings, transitions, winding down.
- Daily Check-ins: A 30-second mood check that builds a picture of how you're really doing over time.
- Shareable Reports: Take real evidence to your GP, school, workplace, or therapist when it matters.
One app for the whole neurodivergent household
For adults
Understand your own brain. Build evidence for assessments and workplace adjustments. Stop feeling like you're figuring it out alone.
For parents
Spot the patterns behind the hard days. Advocate with confidence at school and with doctors. Strategies matched to your child, not a textbook.
For children
Feel seen. Understand how your own brain works. Build a profile that's yours.
Neurodivergent conditions Thriive supports
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When Children Hurt Others
Your child hits, kicks, bites, or hurts siblings, peers, or adults
Steps
- SAFETY FIRST: separate children and ensure everyone is safe
- Stay calm. Reacting with anger escalates the situation
- After the moment: explore what triggered it (sensory overload, frustration, demand?)
- Teach replacement behaviours: 'When you're angry, hit the cushion / squeeze the stress ball'
- Create a de-escalation plan: recognise early signs and intervene BEFORE it escalates
- Work with professionals if aggression is frequent or severe
What you need
Safety plan, replacement sensory items, professional support if needed
Why it works
Aggression in neurodivergent children is almost always communication — unmet sensory needs, frustration that can't be expressed verbally, or overwhelm with no other outlet. Understanding the trigger and teaching replacement behaviours addresses the root cause, not just the surface behaviour.
Age guidance
Common between ages 3-10. Replacement behaviours need to be practised hundreds of times at home before they transfer to real situations.
Real-world example
A parent discovered 90% of hitting happened in the 30 minutes after school. They introduced a 20-minute decompression zone with sensory toys before any sibling interaction. Hitting incidents dropped by 80% in two weeks.
Troubleshooting
- Aggression is almost always a sign of unmet needs, not malice
- Never punish aggression with aggression (smacking, shouting). It models what you're trying to stop
- If aggression is towards themselves, seek urgent professional support