Thriive — The App for Neurodivergent Families
Free to start. Thriive helps parents of neurodivergent kids (ADHD, autism, dyslexia & more) track what matters, spot patterns and advocate with confidence.
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- Visual Routine Builder — Create step-by-step visual routines for morning, bedtime, homework, and more
- Challenge Tracker — Log challenges in 30 seconds and spot patterns automatically
- Strategy Library — Evidence-based strategies tailored to your child's neurodivergent profile
- Daily Check-ins — Track mood, wins, and progress with quick daily reflections
- Shareable Reports — Generate reports for doctors, schools, and therapists
- The Hive — Community tips from parents who understand
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Understanding and Supporting Stimming
Your child stims (flaps, rocks, hums, spins) and you're unsure whether to intervene
Steps
- Understand that stimming is self-regulation, not 'bad behaviour'
- Only redirect a stim if it's genuinely harmful (head banging, skin picking that causes injury)
- For harmful stims, offer a safer alternative that meets the same sensory need
- Never suppress stimming in public because it embarrasses you. Your child needs it
- Educate siblings and family: 'This is how their brain calms down'
What you need
Understanding, alternative sensory options for harmful stims
Why it works
Stimming is the nervous system's way of self-regulating — it provides sensory input the brain needs to stay balanced. Suppressing stims removes a vital coping mechanism, which increases anxiety and can lead to more harmful behaviours. Supporting safe stimming is supporting regulation.
Age guidance
Relevant from toddlerhood through adulthood. Stimming is lifelong and should be accommodated, not extinguished.
Real-world example
A parent used to stop their child from flapping in public because of the looks they got. When they stopped intervening, the child became calmer and more regulated in those same settings. The flapping was doing a job — and it was working.
Troubleshooting
- If stimming increases dramatically, it usually means stress has increased. Address the source
- Schools should accommodate stimming. If they're suppressing it, advocate for your child
- Fidget tools, chewelry, and weighted items are socially acceptable stim alternatives