The Support App for Parents of Children with ADHD or Autism
Thriive helps children grow up feeling understood, not broken.
Everyday support for families navigating ADHD, autism, and other neurodivergent profiles. Track the patterns, find strategies that actually fit, and feel one step ahead on the hard days.
What changes for parents of neurodivergent children
Without Thriive
- Growing up believing they're broken
- Falling behind and never understanding why
- Slipping through the cracks of a system not built for them
- Families feeling helpless watching it happen
With Thriive
- A child who understands how their brain works
- Parents who can advocate with confidence
- Strategies that actually fit, not generic advice
- A family that feels like a team
How Thriive supports parents of children with ADHD and autism
- Pattern Tracker: Log a tough moment in 30 seconds. Thriive surfaces the patterns behind ADHD and autism behaviours, so you can spot the triggers and respond earlier.
- Strategy Library: Real strategies for ADHD and autism, matched to your child's profile. Not generic advice.
- Visual Routine Builder: Step-by-step routines for the moments that usually go sideways. Mornings, bedtime, homework.
- Daily Check-ins: A 30-second mood check that builds a picture of how your child is really doing over time.
- Shareable Reports: Take real evidence to your GP, school, or therapist when it matters.
- The Hive: A community of parents who actually get it.
How Thriive helps parents, and how it helps their children
For parents
Understand your child like never before. Advocate with confidence. Stop feeling like you're figuring it out alone.
For children
Feel seen. Understand how your own brain works. Build a profile that's yours.
Neurodivergent conditions Thriive supports
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Reasonable Adjustments: What to Ask School For
You know your child needs more support at school but aren't sure what to ask for
Steps
- Know your position: schools have a legal duty to make reasonable adjustments for children with additional needs. This applies whether or not your child has a formal diagnosis
- Request a meeting with the learning support coordinator and come prepared with specific asks, not vague concerns
- Use the checklist below as your starting point — not all adjustments apply to every child, so choose 3-5 that would make the most immediate difference
- Frame requests as 'what helps': 'He responds really well to a warning before transitions' rather than 'He can't cope with change'
- Follow up in writing after any meeting: 'As discussed, I understand the school will...' This creates accountability and a paper trail
- Review adjustments regularly. What helps at the start of the year may need updating
What you need
Meeting with the learning support team, written follow-up emails, knowledge of your rights
Why it works
Schools have a legal duty to make reasonable adjustments but many parents don't know what's possible or how to frame the request. This checklist provides specific, proven adjustments organised by category, so you can choose the 3-5 that would make the most immediate difference and present them clearly.
Age guidance
Relevant from school entry through secondary school. Review and update adjustments every term.
Real-world example
A parent chose three adjustments from the checklist — a fidget tool, a visual timetable, and a 5-minute transition warning — and presented them at a meeting with the learning support team. All three were agreed and implemented within a week. The child's teacher reported they were calmer and more focused within a fortnight.
Troubleshooting
- If the school says they 'can't afford' reasonable adjustments, this is generally not a valid reason under disability and education law
- If your child has significant needs, request a formal assessment for additional support — the school or you can usually initiate this
- Seek free, impartial advice from a parent advocacy service if you're struggling to get adjustments agreed
- Private reports (OT, educational psychologist, speech therapy) carry weight even if not from a public service