Thriive — The App for Neurodivergent Families
Free to start. Thriive helps parents of neurodivergent kids (ADHD, autism, dyslexia & more) track what matters, spot patterns and advocate with confidence.
Features
- Visual Routine Builder — Create step-by-step visual routines for morning, bedtime, homework, and more
- Challenge Tracker — Log challenges in 30 seconds and spot patterns automatically
- Strategy Library — Evidence-based strategies tailored to your child's neurodivergent profile
- Daily Check-ins — Track mood, wins, and progress with quick daily reflections
- Shareable Reports — Generate reports for doctors, schools, and therapists
- The Hive — Community tips from parents who understand
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Post-Masking Crash Recovery
You perform neurotypical behaviour all day and completely crash when you get home, unable to function or engage with anyone
Steps
- Acknowledge that masking is exhausting and your need to recover is legitimate, not laziness
- Build a post-masking decompression routine: 20-60 minutes of low-demand, sensory-regulating activity
- Communicate your need to household members: 'I need 30 minutes of quiet when I get home before I can engage'
- Reduce masking where safe: identify relationships and environments where you can be more yourself
- Track your masking load: rate each day's masking demand (low/medium/high) and plan recovery accordingly
What you need
A quiet space, noise-cancelling headphones, understanding from people you live with
Why it works
Masking uses enormous cognitive and emotional resources. Autistic and ADHD adults who mask heavily report chronic fatigue, burnout, and mental health difficulties. Planned recovery isn't optional — it's essential maintenance.
Real-world example
A teacher with autism spent years collapsing on the sofa every evening, unable to engage with their family. When they started a 30-minute decompression routine (dark room, weighted blanket, no talking), they found they actually had energy for the evening afterwards.
Troubleshooting
- If your household doesn't understand, explain it like this: 'Imagine speaking a foreign language all day. You'd need quiet time to recover too'
- If you can't get alone time, noise-cancelling headphones + a do-not-disturb signal can create a bubble
- Weekend recovery days are valid. Don't guilt yourself for needing them
