The Support App for Parents of Children with ADHD or Autism
Thriive helps children grow up feeling understood, not broken.
Everyday support for families navigating ADHD, autism, and other neurodivergent profiles. Track the patterns, find strategies that actually fit, and feel one step ahead on the hard days.
What changes for parents of neurodivergent children
Without Thriive
- Growing up believing they're broken
- Falling behind and never understanding why
- Slipping through the cracks of a system not built for them
- Families feeling helpless watching it happen
With Thriive
- A child who understands how their brain works
- Parents who can advocate with confidence
- Strategies that actually fit, not generic advice
- A family that feels like a team
How Thriive supports parents of children with ADHD and autism
- Pattern Tracker: Log a tough moment in 30 seconds. Thriive surfaces the patterns behind ADHD and autism behaviours, so you can spot the triggers and respond earlier.
- Strategy Library: Real strategies for ADHD and autism, matched to your child's profile. Not generic advice.
- Visual Routine Builder: Step-by-step routines for the moments that usually go sideways. Mornings, bedtime, homework.
- Daily Check-ins: A 30-second mood check that builds a picture of how your child is really doing over time.
- Shareable Reports: Take real evidence to your GP, school, or therapist when it matters.
- The Hive: A community of parents who actually get it.
How Thriive helps parents, and how it helps their children
For parents
Understand your child like never before. Advocate with confidence. Stop feeling like you're figuring it out alone.
For children
Feel seen. Understand how your own brain works. Build a profile that's yours.
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Solo Parenting a Neurodivergent Child
You're parenting alone and the weight of appointments, advocacy, school communication, and daily support falls entirely on you
Steps
- Accept that you cannot do everything. Triage ruthlessly: what's urgent, what's important, what can wait, what can be dropped entirely
- Build a 'team of two' even if there's no partner: one friend, one family member, one professional, or one online group who gets it. You need at least one person you can call
- Batch appointments and school communications. Set one day a week as your 'admin day' for calls, emails, and form-filling
- Create a single document with your child's key information: diagnosis, medications, professionals involved, school contacts. Keep it on your phone so it's always accessible
- Ask for help with specific tasks, not general support. 'Can you pick up the kids on Thursday?' works better than 'I need help'
- Protect your own energy ruthlessly. You are the only adult holding this together. If you burn out, everything stops
What you need
A key information document, at least one support person, ruthless prioritisation, self-compassion
Why it works
Solo parenting a neurodivergent child means carrying the mental load, emotional labour, advocacy, and daily care without a co-parent to share it with. The strategies that help aren't about trying harder. They're about building systems that reduce the cognitive load and creating a support network that makes the weight shareable.
Age guidance
Designed for adults. These strategies apply regardless of your child's age, but the specific pressures shift as children grow.
Real-world example
A single mum created a one-page document with her son's diagnosis, medications, school contacts, and therapy schedule and kept it on her phone. When she had to call an after-hours GP, she could read everything off the screen instead of trying to remember it all under pressure. That document saved her countless times.
Troubleshooting
- The financial pressure of solo parenting an ND child is real. Look into disability benefits, carer's allowances, and charity grants. Many parents don't know these exist
- If you're the only point of contact for school, ask the school to communicate via email so you have a written record and don't miss things during the working day
- Online communities of solo parents raising ND children are invaluable. You don't have to explain yourself. They already understand
- Perfectionism will destroy you. 'Good enough' parenting is excellent parenting when you're doing it alone