Thriive — The App for Neurodivergent Families
Free to start. Thriive helps parents of neurodivergent kids (ADHD, autism, dyslexia & more) track what matters, spot patterns and advocate with confidence.
Features
- Visual Routine Builder — Create step-by-step visual routines for morning, bedtime, homework, and more
- Challenge Tracker — Log challenges in 30 seconds and spot patterns automatically
- Strategy Library — Evidence-based strategies tailored to your child's neurodivergent profile
- Daily Check-ins — Track mood, wins, and progress with quick daily reflections
- Shareable Reports — Generate reports for doctors, schools, and therapists
- The Hive — Community tips from parents who understand
Conditions We Support
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Balancing Multiple Children's Needs
One child's needs dominate family life and other children are missing out
Steps
- Audit your time honestly: which child gets the most attention and why?
- Schedule protected 1:1 time with each child that CANNOT be cancelled
- Involve another trusted adult (partner, grandparent, friend) to help balance attention
- Let each child have their own space, routines, and special activities
- Stop comparing your children to each other. Each has their own journey
What you need
Honest self-reflection, support network, a schedule you can stick to
Why it works
When one child's needs dominate, other children lose out on attention that's essential for their development and wellbeing. Protected 1:1 time signals to every child that they matter individually, not just as part of the family unit. This is especially important when one child's needs are louder or more visible.
Age guidance
Relevant whenever you have more than one child. The balance shifts as children grow, so revisit regularly.
Real-world example
A parent realised they hadn't had a conversation with their middle child that wasn't interrupted in weeks. They started taking her for a 20-minute walk after school once a week while a grandparent watched the others. That small change transformed their relationship.
Troubleshooting
- You can't pour from an empty cup. Your own needs matter in this equation too
- It won't always be equal. Some weeks one child needs more. That's OK
- If guilt is overwhelming you, talk to a therapist. Parent guilt is real and heavy