Steps

1. Recognise that hyperfocus is a feature, not a flaw. It shows incredible concentration ability
2. Use countdown warnings (10, 5, 2 minutes) before transitions out of hyperfocus
3. Offer a 'save point': 'Let's save your place so you can come back to it'
4. Channel hyperfocus into productive activities when possible
5. Avoid abrupt interruptions. They can trigger meltdowns from the 'snap out' effect

What you need

Timer for warnings, a way to 'save' their progress (bookmark, screenshot)

Why it works

Hyperfocus is often misunderstood as just concentrating really hard. In reality, the ADHD and autistic brain locks onto stimulating activities because the dopamine reward is so intense. Abrupt interruption feels neurologically like having something ripped away. Countdown warnings and save points ease the brain out of the flow state gradually.

Age guidance

Relevant from age 4 onwards. Hyperfocus becomes more pronounced as children encounter screens and highly stimulating activities.

Real-world example

A parent used to physically take the iPad away, which triggered a meltdown every time. When they switched to 10-5-2 minute warnings and saying 'let's save your game,' the meltdowns stopped. The child just needed time to mentally transition.

Troubleshooting

• Hyperfocus on screens is harder to break than on physical activities
• Using their interest as a reward ('finish homework, then 20 minutes of Lego') works well
• If hyperfocus is only on screens, it may be worth reviewing screen time boundaries