The Support App for Parents of Children with ADHD or Autism
Thriive helps children grow up feeling understood, not broken.
Everyday support for families navigating ADHD, autism, and other neurodivergent profiles. Track the patterns, find strategies that actually fit, and feel one step ahead on the hard days.
What changes for parents of neurodivergent children
Without Thriive
- Growing up believing they're broken
- Falling behind and never understanding why
- Slipping through the cracks of a system not built for them
- Families feeling helpless watching it happen
With Thriive
- A child who understands how their brain works
- Parents who can advocate with confidence
- Strategies that actually fit, not generic advice
- A family that feels like a team
How Thriive supports parents of children with ADHD and autism
- Pattern Tracker: Log a tough moment in 30 seconds. Thriive surfaces the patterns behind ADHD and autism behaviours, so you can spot the triggers and respond earlier.
- Strategy Library: Real strategies for ADHD and autism, matched to your child's profile. Not generic advice.
- Visual Routine Builder: Step-by-step routines for the moments that usually go sideways. Mornings, bedtime, homework.
- Daily Check-ins: A 30-second mood check that builds a picture of how your child is really doing over time.
- Shareable Reports: Take real evidence to your GP, school, or therapist when it matters.
- The Hive: A community of parents who actually get it.
How Thriive helps parents, and how it helps their children
For parents
Understand your child like never before. Advocate with confidence. Stop feeling like you're figuring it out alone.
For children
Feel seen. Understand how your own brain works. Build a profile that's yours.
Neurodivergent conditions Thriive supports
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Following Multi-Step Directions
Your child only does the first step of a multi-step instruction and forgets the rest
Steps
- Give ONE instruction at a time. Wait for completion before the next
- For multi-step tasks, use a visual checklist they can tick off
- Chunk instructions: instead of 'Get ready for bed', say 'Put on pyjamas' then wait
- Ask them to repeat the instruction back to you before they start
- Use gestures alongside words to reinforce the message
What you need
Visual checklists, patience, simplified language
Why it works
Children with ADHD and Autism have limited working memory capacity for verbal instructions. Giving three instructions at once is like asking them to juggle — they'll catch the first one and drop the rest. Single instructions with visual backup reduce the cognitive load to a manageable level.
Age guidance
Critical from age 3 onwards. Even older children and teenagers benefit from chunked instructions. This isn't immaturity — it's a genuine processing difference.
Real-world example
A parent switched from 'go upstairs, brush your teeth, and put your pyjamas on' to just 'go upstairs.' When the child got there, they called up 'now brush your teeth.' Task completion went from 30% to nearly 100% overnight.
Troubleshooting
- If they're not following instructions, check they heard you. Get their attention first
- Reduce background noise when giving instructions
- It's not defiance, it's processing. Give them time