Thriive — The App for Neurodivergent Families
Free to start. Thriive helps parents of neurodivergent kids (ADHD, autism, dyslexia & more) track what matters, spot patterns and advocate with confidence.
Features
- Visual Routine Builder — Create step-by-step visual routines for morning, bedtime, homework, and more
- Challenge Tracker — Log challenges in 30 seconds and spot patterns automatically
- Strategy Library — Evidence-based strategies tailored to your child's neurodivergent profile
- Daily Check-ins — Track mood, wins, and progress with quick daily reflections
- Shareable Reports — Generate reports for doctors, schools, and therapists
- The Hive — Community tips from parents who understand
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Following Multi-Step Directions
Your child only does the first step of a multi-step instruction and forgets the rest
Steps
- Give ONE instruction at a time. Wait for completion before the next
- For multi-step tasks, use a visual checklist they can tick off
- Chunk instructions: instead of 'Get ready for bed', say 'Put on pyjamas' then wait
- Ask them to repeat the instruction back to you before they start
- Use gestures alongside words to reinforce the message
What you need
Visual checklists, patience, simplified language
Why it works
Children with ADHD and Autism have limited working memory capacity for verbal instructions. Giving three instructions at once is like asking them to juggle — they'll catch the first one and drop the rest. Single instructions with visual backup reduce the cognitive load to a manageable level.
Age guidance
Critical from age 3 onwards. Even older children and teenagers benefit from chunked instructions. This isn't immaturity — it's a genuine processing difference.
Real-world example
A parent switched from 'go upstairs, brush your teeth, and put your pyjamas on' to just 'go upstairs.' When the child got there, they called up 'now brush your teeth.' Task completion went from 30% to nearly 100% overnight.
Troubleshooting
- If they're not following instructions, check they heard you. Get their attention first
- Reduce background noise when giving instructions
- It's not defiance, it's processing. Give them time