Thriive — The App for Neurodivergent Families
Free to start. Thriive helps parents of neurodivergent kids (ADHD, autism, dyslexia & more) track what matters, spot patterns and advocate with confidence.
Features
- Visual Routine Builder — Create step-by-step visual routines for morning, bedtime, homework, and more
- Challenge Tracker — Log challenges in 30 seconds and spot patterns automatically
- Strategy Library — Evidence-based strategies tailored to your child's neurodivergent profile
- Daily Check-ins — Track mood, wins, and progress with quick daily reflections
- Shareable Reports — Generate reports for doctors, schools, and therapists
- The Hive — Community tips from parents who understand
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Meltdown Response Plan
Your child is in full meltdown with screaming, crying, or possibly aggression
Steps
- SAFETY FIRST: Move dangerous objects away, ensure siblings are safe
- STOP TALKING: Reduce all verbal input immediately
- GET LOW: Sit on the floor near them (not towering over)
- BREATHE: Take slow, visible breaths. They'll mirror you
- WAIT: Don't talk about what happened until they're fully calm (can take 20-30 min)
- RECONNECT: 'I'm here. You're safe. Let's have some water'
What you need
Nothing except your calm presence. Water for after.
Why it works
During a meltdown, the brain's alarm system has taken over completely. The thinking, reasoning brain is offline. This strategy works because it addresses the nervous system directly rather than trying to reason with a brain that can't reason. Getting low, reducing input, and breathing slowly all signal safety to an overwhelmed body.
Age guidance
Critical for all ages. The core approach stays the same from toddlers to teenagers — reduce input, stay calm, wait.
Real-world example
The most common feedback from parents is that doing less is harder than doing more. One dad said he spent months trying to talk his son through meltdowns. The first time he just sat on the floor, said nothing, and breathed, the meltdown was over in 10 minutes instead of 40.
Troubleshooting
- If YOU are too upset, tag in another adult or step back briefly
- Never punish a meltdown. They're not choosing this
- After they're calm, you can discuss what happened with empathy