ADHD & Autism Support That Fits How Your Brain Actually Works
Understood, not broken.
Thriive is the support app for ADHD and autistic brains — and the whole household behind them. Track your patterns, find strategies that actually fit, and walk into every appointment with evidence. For yourself, or for your child.
What changes with Thriive
Without Thriive
- Going through life believing you're broken
- Falling behind and never understanding why
- Slipping through the cracks of a system not built for you
- Trying everything and still feeling stuck
With Thriive
- Understanding how your brain actually works
- Confidence to advocate for what you need
- Strategies that actually fit, not generic advice
- Knowing you're not the problem
How Thriive supports ADHD and autistic people
- Pattern Tracker: Log a tough moment in 30 seconds. Thriive surfaces the patterns behind it — your triggers, your hardest times of day, what helps.
- Strategy Library: 130+ real strategies for ADHD and autism, matched to your neurotype and the time you've got. Not generic advice.
- Smart Strategies: Describe what's going on and Thriive builds a strategy around you — or around your child.
- Visual Routine Builder: Step-by-step routines for the moments that usually go sideways. Mornings, transitions, winding down.
- Daily Check-ins: A 30-second mood check that builds a picture of how you're really doing over time.
- Shareable Reports: Take real evidence to your GP, school, workplace, or therapist when it matters.
One app for the whole neurodivergent household
For adults
Understand your own brain. Build evidence for assessments and workplace adjustments. Stop feeling like you're figuring it out alone.
For parents
Spot the patterns behind the hard days. Advocate with confidence at school and with doctors. Strategies matched to your child, not a textbook.
For children
Feel seen. Understand how your own brain works. Build a profile that's yours.
Neurodivergent conditions Thriive supports
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Repair Scripts After RSD Outbursts
For when after an RSD spike you said or sent something you regret, and now shame is stopping you from repairing it
Steps
- Wait until your nervous system is actually settled. Repair from regulation, not from panic. 1-2 hours minimum
- Name what happened to yourself first: 'My RSD spiked. I reacted from threat, not from truth'. This separates the brain from the behaviour
- Use a 3-part repair: own the impact, name the pattern, offer the next step. No long justifications
- Try a template: 'I reacted hard earlier and I think I hurt you. That was my stuff, not yours. Can we talk later when you've got space?'
- Let them respond on their timeline. Repair doesn't entitle you to instant forgiveness
What you need
A 1-2 hour cooldown, a quiet space to draft the message before sending
Why it works
RSD reactions feel like truth in the moment but read as disproportionate from the outside. A clean repair separates the neurological reaction from the relationship, so trust can rebuild without you carrying weeks of shame.
Age guidance
Adults and older teens.
Real-world example
An ADHD adult fired off a furious 4am message after a perceived snub. The next morning they used the 3-part script. Their friend replied 'thank you for naming it, I was confused'. The friendship was fine within a day.
Troubleshooting
- Avoid 'I'm so sorry, I'm the worst, I'll never...'. Over-apologising is a self-soothing tactic that can burden the other person
- If they don't respond, that's information, not abandonment. Sit with the discomfort instead of double-texting
- If RSD-driven outbursts are frequent, the strategy is regulation upstream, not just better repairs