ADHD & Autism Support That Fits How Your Brain Actually Works
Understood, not broken.
Thriive is the support app for ADHD and autistic brains — and the whole household behind them. Track your patterns, find strategies that actually fit, and walk into every appointment with evidence. For yourself, or for your child.
What changes with Thriive
Without Thriive
- Going through life believing you're broken
- Falling behind and never understanding why
- Slipping through the cracks of a system not built for you
- Trying everything and still feeling stuck
With Thriive
- Understanding how your brain actually works
- Confidence to advocate for what you need
- Strategies that actually fit, not generic advice
- Knowing you're not the problem
How Thriive supports ADHD and autistic people
- Pattern Tracker: Log a tough moment in 30 seconds. Thriive surfaces the patterns behind it — your triggers, your hardest times of day, what helps.
- Strategy Library: 130+ real strategies for ADHD and autism, matched to your neurotype and the time you've got. Not generic advice.
- Smart Strategies: Describe what's going on and Thriive builds a strategy around you — or around your child.
- Visual Routine Builder: Step-by-step routines for the moments that usually go sideways. Mornings, transitions, winding down.
- Daily Check-ins: A 30-second mood check that builds a picture of how you're really doing over time.
- Shareable Reports: Take real evidence to your GP, school, workplace, or therapist when it matters.
One app for the whole neurodivergent household
For adults
Understand your own brain. Build evidence for assessments and workplace adjustments. Stop feeling like you're figuring it out alone.
For parents
Spot the patterns behind the hard days. Advocate with confidence at school and with doctors. Strategies matched to your child, not a textbook.
For children
Feel seen. Understand how your own brain works. Build a profile that's yours.
Neurodivergent conditions Thriive supports
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Holiday and Event Survival
For when birthdays, Christmas, family gatherings, and special events cause sensory overload, routine disruption, and meltdowns. And you dread them
Steps
- Lower your expectations. The Instagram-perfect holiday is not the goal. A calm, manageable one is. Give yourself permission to do things differently
- Prepare your child: use a visual schedule or social story showing what will happen, who will be there, and how long you'll stay
- Pack a sensory survival kit: ear defenders, fidgets, a comfort item, familiar snacks, and sunglasses. Keep it in a bag they can access themselves
- Plan an exit strategy before you arrive: 'If it's too much, we'll go to the car for a break' or 'We'll stay for one hour and then leave'
- Create a quiet space at the event if you can: a bedroom, a car, a garden corner where your child can retreat and decompress
- Maintain at least one key routine even on special days: bedtime sequence, morning snack, or a familiar activity. One anchor of predictability helps stabilise the chaos
What you need
Sensory kit, social story, exit strategy, at least one maintained routine, realistic expectations
Why it works
Special events combine every challenge neurodivergent children face: unpredictable environments, sensory overload, social pressure, routine disruption, and heightened emotional expectations ('you should be having fun!'). Preparation, sensory tools, and exit strategies reduce the overwhelm to manageable levels, and maintaining one routine anchor gives the brain something predictable to hold onto.
Age guidance
Relevant at every age. The specific events change (birthday parties → family gatherings → social events) but the approach stays the same: prepare, pack, plan an exit.
Real-world example
A family decided that Christmas Day would have no visitors, no rushing, and presents spread over three days. Their autistic son handled Christmas calmly for the first time in years. The grandparents were initially offended but when they saw how calm he was, they understood. Boxing Day became the family visit day instead, and it worked beautifully.
Troubleshooting
- If relatives say 'they need to learn to cope', set your boundary: 'They're coping the best they can. What they need is support, not exposure therapy'
- Present-opening can be overwhelming: consider spreading gifts over several days rather than all at once
- Birthday parties (your child's or others') are sensory nightmares. A smaller, controlled celebration at home is often more enjoyable for everyone than a soft play centre
- Recovery time AFTER events is just as important as preparation before. Plan a low-demand day after any big event